Bad things happen to people in general. That’s simply the truth and everyone knows it. We usually think to ourselves, “What did I DO to deserve this?” You will go over your actions and your character… “I’m a good person, I’ve never DONE anything to anyone.” But how many people actually stop and wonder to themselves, “What did I THINK to deserve this?” After all, you are what you think and you have what you thought!
When we realize this power, you are on a journey of self awareness. It’s when you are aware, when you are your strongest! When things you don’t want to happen, happens anyway, the question should be asked, “What did I think to attract this event or action?” Go within, because that’s where all your answers are.
Sounds crazy? But is it really? I was raised by a single mother who could always see the negative side of anything. She always thought something bad was going to happen and that she received the short end of the stick. At the end, she did receive the short end of the stick. What was she thinking?
Negative Thoughts/Negative Results
Her line of thinking was negative and the results were also negative. This line of thinking is detrimental to receiving the things you want out of life. You really are what you think. If the mind can’t see something, or comprehend a thing as being real, it will never become real in the physical. But if what the mind does comprehend is negative, negativity will present itself in the physical, simply because that’s what you were focusing on. Think about it and discover your focus! It may need to be redirected if you aren’t living the life you wish to live.
The Thoughts has It’s Own Channel
What the mind “thinks” is directly connected to the inner voice, that I’m told many no longer hear. The voice is still there, but most people are tuned into a different channel. Society will have you to look outward for all the answers. The natural instincts are no longer trusted. It has become natural to run to a doctor, minister, or even google when you have a problem. We allow “Practicing Physicians” to practice at healing every day, when women were the first healers.
Manufactured Thoughts
People are distracted by all the “professionals” that want us to believe that we are not perfect. That our children are not perfect. But there are drugs to help you become “better”, there’s a procedure to fix what isn’t perfect, and a shop that will take care of everything else. All the while our young people are getting the message that without “help” they are not good enough.
Women should be the first teachers. But we’ve allowed our daughters to believe that the only thing they have going for them is beauty. Oh! And that beauty must be manufactured! I witnessed a 6 year old having a fit because she couldn’t go to the nail shop. What messages are we really sending?
Conditioning Robs Us Of Free Thinkers
Conditioning is defined as to adapt, modify, or mold so as to conform to an environing culture. Society has been conditioned to believe the “experts” even when it just doesn’t add up. Mainstream society want’s women to believe that they know better than us how to raise our children, what to feed them, how to deal with our relationships and everything else. There’s always a book or some new philosophy being pushed. When we allow others to dictate what is normal and natural we deny ourselves the ability to grow into who we are because we’ve allowed other to determine our standards. This leads to “Group-Think” of toxic people and relationships. Society needs more free-thinkers!
Well, I’ve decided to push my own philosophy. It’s what I used when I almost “lost” myself, or maybe I should say before I actually “found” myself. Women are pushed to be so many things by society, that we forget to be ourselves. We’ve forgetten to trust ourselves. And they are not alone, by the time most people remember their hopes and dreams, they are often responsible for others and believe that “self” has to be placed on the back burner to make way for “life”! But this didn’t happen without years of conditioning. You were meant to be unique and were given special gifts.
Not only do we become miserable, hard, doubtful but we pass this thinking on to our daughters. And yes, the cycle continues.
I know you want to discontinue this cycle and help your child before this cycle is started. Remember when you were young and you honestly thought there was nothing you couldn’t do? NOTHING!!! That’s the way our children should feel all the time, that’s the way we should feel.
People ARE Capable
You may not be as young as you were, but I’m here to tell you that there is NOTHING that you can’t do! You are more than capable. But as long as you believe that you can’t live the life you dream about, you will never be the person you were meant to be. When you aren’t being the person you were meant to be, things don’t go the way they should. It’s a natural order to things…and conditioning robs women of everything that is natural to them. There must be a return to the natural order of things. The conditioned must wake up to discover their greatness. How do you do that…. sign up for my mailing list, and I’ll help you.
If you are the same person you were 5 years ago…it’s time for change. If you are struggling in relationships…it’s time for change. If your child believes that they have to own certain labels, to be part of the “in” crowd…it’s time for change.
We weren’t put on this earth to struggle…we are women! Life starts with us and so does it’s restoration! Isn’t it time we restore life?
And this is Kimsyne’s View!
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